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About Diane Zumer Understanding the
Process of Healing
This is the area I really enjoy working with a person. The work will help you to become aware of these patterns, and to understand whether they are positive or negative. You can then learn how to undo the negative patterns, first by becoming aware of when you are doing this negative pattern, and then having “tools” to turn that behavior around to create joy instead of pain. In our normal state of existence we are joyful, enthusiastic, loving
creators. Alas, most of us are a far cry from that. That state is
achievable, though. But the problem is that we all have to walk
right though the middle of the pain that has been created from our
illusory beliefs, and understand how to change them into a positive
experience in our life. Many who do not know how to do this process
use some form of suppression in order to numb the pain below conscious
level. That suppression can be in the form of alcohol, drugs, blaming
someone else for our stuff, or even being a workaholic. You probably
know what I am talking about when I say that most families have
not and do not know how to communicate honestly and with kindness,
about what bothers them, so there is usually energy on the surface
of everything being just fine, but then there is this undercurrent
of energy that it is not fine, but in fact, awful. Nobody is talking
about the awful, unless a fight breaks out with yelling and screaming.
My mother and father would argue after we all went to bed. What
did they think, we could not hear them fighting? Actually, it was
my father yelling at my mother. She just internalized it. They stayed
together until their deaths, but really disliked each other. Such
a shame that so many families are like that. One of my clients would
complain about her husband to me and all her closest friends. After
I showed her that this negative communication was making the situation
worse, not better, she was able over time to stop doing it, Some are calling this time in our evolution the “great awakening”. This is a time of communication. Look around. Most everyone has cell phones, even children. There are all kinds of gadgets for communication; television, computers, telephones, and on and on. What’s this trying to tell us? Now is the time for us to get in touch with ourselves. Many people are moving into awareness about themselves, and there are many modalities to do that. Alternative modalities, such as acupuncture, nutrition, osteopathy, chiropractic, yoga, tai chi, pilates, and many more will help you. Not to say that allopathic (traditional western) medicine is not of value, because it is. Most of us would not be alive today if it was not for allopathic medicine. But, like they say, there are many roads to heaven. Your road is perfect for you, and the ultimate goal is to achieve the true state of joy, enthusiasm, love, and creativity. A truly happy person seems hard to find, but more and more people are doing their personal internal adventure of awareness, and are definitely on the road to true happiness.
This is definitely a process that takes time. I have never seen a person that did not go through a process of unfolding the awareness of themselves and life. Most of my clients that I work with will have a session, then go for a time, and then feel like it is time to have another session. Some people only have one or two sessions, some people keep going, and I leave that strictly up to you. How a Healing Works
We will discuss any patterns I see going on with you, plus options of how you can change negative patterns that are creating pain or disharmony for you. I will give you an energy healing, helping to alleviate any old
energy buildup, so that you can process your understanding in the
shortest amount of time possible. Lastly, I will fill your body and aura up with your specific energy vibration. This allows the healing to be owned by you and your body.
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My
whole career has been based on a saying by Mahatma Ghandi. “As
human beings our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake
the world…as in being able to remake ourselves”. I feel
no statement has ever being said that resembles such “truth”
about what needs to happen with all of us. 
to
start talking about something there is usually an explosion of some
sort. Some little thing becomes a big issue. A person looking on
a situation such as that, may say that the person over reacted,
but in fact, they just got to a place of such overwhelm that in
that moment of release the energy piled up just started coming out.
This is quite a healing taking place for that person, because internalized
pain becomes illness at some point. When this happens to some people,
they become guilty because of such a horrendous release that they
just go back to internalizing again, not realizing that this is
the start of healing. Some people get into a habitual state of projection,
and that seems to be the only way they feel good. For example, I
know a man who hates his job. He routinely picks a fight with his
wife in the morning, and by doing so projects the overwhelm he feels
about going to work on his wife. Then he leaves. By that time her
day is ruined, and she frets all day about his projection of anger,
and then she unloads on him when he returns. This doesn’t
sound like fun to me, but this is the kind of reaction we have.
That kind of pattern only creates more anger, illness, and death.
Handling the real problem would enable them to have a loving relationship,
and be healthy in their bodies.
and
start working on herself instead. As she started to get happier
from her internal work, she then could start to communicate directly
to her husband in a kind way about what was bothering her when he
did certain things. Now she was getting some where! Over some time
they both became more aware of what was bothering each one of them
and the negative pattern set up from their original dissatisfaction
and lack of communication then started to dissolve. They are much
happier together now, and still working on the ability to communicate
truthfully, but without projecting blame on each other. When you
become aware and take responsibility for your patterns, then things
can really change for the better. Suppression does not change anything.
You still wake up to the same old painful situation, and possibly
a hang over as well. 
Maybe
you have heard the term chakra. Chakras are energy centers that
enable you as a spirit to download your information into the physical
space of being a body. They line up along the spine, and even go
up above the body. The eighth chakra sits above your head, and its
function is to hold the information of your personal “Divine
Plan” for this life time. This basically means that most of
us have a blueprint for our lives that was created before we entered
this body. I see this as being an overall plan that has specific
events or agreements in it that direct the energy of your life.
I have developed the ability to read this “divine plan”,
and help you to know what the theme of your life is all about. From
there I look at whether or not you are on your life’s path.
Dissatisfaction comes to a person when they are not on their path.
Experiences that do not turn into the awareness and healing that
you planned, will then become yet another experience until the goal
is obtained. That’s why we may marry someone, get a divorce,
and end up with yet another person trying to work out the same or
similar issue. There may be a series of events that happen over
time that all have the same theme. When the healing is complete,
we do not repeat the experience. 
I
can look at anything to do with your energy with my clairvoyance.
The wonderful part is that clairvoyance comes with a non judgmental
space. You just see it in no judgment. In a session with me you
will experience communication about your “Divine Plan”.